How to communicate well in relationships
Conversations generally take the first direction rather than the second, simply because we seem to be so aversed to accepting that people are blank canvases. People cling to the notion that messages are powerful, and that audiences are passive. There is a belief that all we have to do
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The Relationship Game
What is the most challenging thing or event in any relationship? What destroys more partnerships, marriage, new relationships etc? This is the old age question that most people ask me when wanting and desiring to take their relationship to a level 3 to 4 love plate forms. What is a le
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Midlife Crisis/Transformation
What is Midlife Crisis really? And do we fully understand this concept in life that so many people are going through between 35 to 70. There seems to be an epidemic of chaos out there in the human community at the moment with people struggling with the change. Midlife Crisis has been
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The Wisdom of the Tao
There are many paths to Self-awakening. Although whatever path you take, it is good to choose consciously to awaken. The path I choose this year was Tao for greater learning and understanding. It was to bring me closer to the understanding how just the simple concept of acceptance cou
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Midlife Crisis and Menopause Crisis
Please enjoy my blog and article on Midlife Crisis and Menopause Crisis, it dovetails with the article below and comes from my Mind Plumbing face book page. What is Midlife Crisis and Menopause Crisis and does everyone go through it or not? Midlife Crisis seems to be deeply imbedded i
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Approval, recognition, acceptance – a journey of self-observation
All of us come into this world wanting approval, recognition, acceptance, on being appreciated and of course the highest of all love. What is good to remember is that the only practice that we do of lasting value is the practice we do on ourselves our inner work within ourselves. Peop
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STROKING: GIVING POSTIVE RECOGNITION TO OTHERS
After bonding with people we have the opportunity to deepen the encounter by ‘stroking’-giving to-the other person. A stroke is a unit of attention providing stimulation which , when positive, energises both the giver and the receiver, for example ‘Mary, thanks for h
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FORGIVENESS
Forgiveness can seem hard to do when you’ve feel deeply betrayed or deeply hurt. When you feel justified in not forgiving someone, that resentment stays with you and can grind away inside you for your whole life. I know I have been there. Forgiveness from the head just does not
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WHAT IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE?
‘What is unconditional love’? It is not, “I can love you if you do what my emotional programming-my emotional addictions-says I want you to do. “It is just love, ‘just,” “I love you because you are there; I love you because you are part of the
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LOVE RULES THROUGH LAW
I have learnt and intelligent study of teachings of the Science of the Mind. In the teachings we learn that all is ‘Love’ and yet all is ‘Law.’ Love rules through Law. Love is the Divine Givingness, Law is the Way. Love is spontaneous; Law is impersonal. If we
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