Forgiveness can seem hard to do when you’ve feel deeply betrayed or deeply hurt. When you feel justified in not forgiving someone, that resentment stays with you and can grind away inside you for your whole life. I know I have been there.
Forgiveness from the head just does not work and is not possible. This kind of hurt can lurk around for many years remaining in your unconscious rearing its ugly head in emotional melt downs when you lease it expect it and in periods of stressful life situations.
Even if this hurt comes up once a year or every day or once a month it is still stewing in your subconscious and draining your energy and Spirit. The crazy thing here is the other person would have no idea that you are harbouring this resentment towards them.
They would be living there life as they normally do and may only be aware of the hurt that you both feel. There perception would be totally different too. True forgiveness erases all negative associations from your holographic heart.
When you don’t forgive and resentment festers, your anger can turn into hate, which is one of the most deliberating energies to emotionally allow festering in the body.
Your heart will keep bringing up to conscious awareness old unforgiving feelings and memories for you to forgive, release, surrender and let go. Regardless of what another person did or didn’t do , don’t imprison yourself mentally or emotionally.
Life goes on. Sincere forgiveness from the heart will release you and release the heart of the person you were hating, whether they are aware of it or not. It is not important to say it to there face if this is not possible, just apply what you are learning here and let the Universe do the rest.
Miracles do happen they are a change in order from a lower form of perception to a higher order of thought. The person forgiving receives this energy for themselves regardless of what happens. Try it out and see. Your life will never be the same. All fear is an illusion, all love is real.