‘What is unconditional love’? It is not, “I can love you if you do what my emotional programming-my emotional addictions-says I want you to do.
“It is just love, ‘just,” “I love you because you are there; I love you because you are part of the newness of my life. I love you because although our bodies and minds may be on a different journeys. It is okay we are different and have different likes we can learn from each other and build on each others strength of characters to grow and learn. ‘I love you because you are just you.’
I ask people to remember the reasons why they picked there partners in the first place. What attracted you to your partners or friends for that matter, this teachings applies to all aspects of our relationships.
We are one unity of essence. Real Love is simply accepting another person, flaws and all and not trying to change them, you accept them, completely and unconditionally.
‘True enlightenment’ is putting yourself in others shoes to see the world from their place, even when you don’t feel like it or want to be right. I ask people ‘do you want to be right or do you want peace’?
We as human beings can create with our minds a horribly warped evaluation of the here and now based on our addictive emotional programming. When this happens we magnify the difference and suppress similarities between ourselves and others.
This destroys our ability to love unconditionally!