There’s always a lot of questions to be answered when it comes to taking responsibility for your life. This collection of FAQ’s may help you to understand the process that the SIT Model works with.
- Can SIT be used for simple things like changing a job?
Yes, SIT can be used for this as it has a strategy module for achieving better results by letting go of resistance to change in this area. Remember, when you are struggling to find a new job it will be because of your self-worth and your self-esteem attached to the results of finding work. It will teach you to accept the situation you are in and help assist you to make new goals based in better results.The SIT Model will do this by assisting you with the tools to take massive action and make better decisions to help with the changes you are looking for.
- Is SIT suitable for Children?
The SIT Model doesn’t work with children and the main reason for that is that children learn from their environment, carers, parents, childcare facilitators etc. Children are like sponges and their little brains are in what we call delta/ theta brain states until a certain age.While in this state they cannot tell the difference or cannot reason out properly to know the different between rights or wrong or good or bad. That is why children are so accepting until their teenage years.It is much better to work with the parents and the parents do the SIT Model to understand the beliefs that their children are adopting from themselves and others.
- How long do you have to do SIT before you see results?
What I have found coaching many clients is that usually on the 2nd session with me when I go over their false beliefs/assumptions they really start to get a sense of what the mind has been doing and that they now need to take back their own direction. For many clients it is such a relief to have it there in black and white and in front of them.Occasionally I have a client who gets overwhelmed and this is usually only for a short time as they have been using control their whole life to get what they want and realise they will need to surrender this to change the effects it has had on their life, and relationships.People who seek out this coaching really want changes and the SIT is gentle and empowering because you are in the driver’s seat so to speak, I am guiding you through the process.
- Does SIT work for everyone?
There is no Model [of psychotherapy] out there that is absolute, although because this model is based in continually upgrading we see some amazing results. I instinctively know early in sessions whether a person really wants change or not, as the Model will show me this. In this way it safe guards my time and the client’s back pocket.With all change it will take the client to make a commitment to fulfil your side of the bargain, which will be practice. Once you see the changes happening it really inspires you to keep going. Once people comment on the changes in you it empowers you to keep going and to help others. It is like a domino effect.
- Once you have learned the model can you use it in other areas of your life for change?
Absolutely, in fact in the first session I find out all the areas you want to change and encourage you all the way with the tools of the model to make these changes. The Model can be adapted to any area of life that is what is so great about it.It has an area that we work with to upgrade and improve any area of your life. This side of the Model is called the 5 Step Process, basic and advance.As with all Models there is many new tools being added all the time because everyone has different perceptions and beliefs.
- Can you adapt the Model for businesses and corporate situations with staff?
Yes definitely I coach many businesses now with this Model and just adjust it to the work environment. It is a great mediation tools for the workplace.
- What is the normal time-frame between sessions?
The first two sessions need to be completed together, and the reason for this is because it is better for you to be taught ‘The Get Your Life Right Model, and ‘The Personal Development Model,’ together over two sessions because the personal development model comes with the beginning of the upgrades.After that you can have the session two weeks apart, yet this is totally up to you, many people I coach prefer to have it weekly because of the changes they are making and want to keep up the momentum.
- Do you teach this program in group situations?
Yes I do teach in group situations of 5 or more people. Although to get the benefit of the group teachings I need to do a pre-evaluations questionnaire on each person which is the one done in the first session. This takes 1.5 hours and then it takes me an hour to examine the beliefs to the lenses.Most people want the pre-evaluation as it shows them exactly which beliefs are holding them back from moving forward in life. It would be the key to knowing yourself which is the greatest gift you can give back to yourself.
- Do you do a payment schedule?
I am sorry we don’t. All sessions need to be paid for each time, the reason for this is that I have found that people value it more and learn the value of money as energy as they are going.I encourage people to save up for 4 sessions to get them started and can come back when finances allows it then it doesn’t interrupt the program.This is a program and needs to be applied like any program for it to have it greatest results
Clients can also pay upfront and I offer a discount for this also. You can also claim this back as Personal Development training if you are working or have a business as well, so this helps greatly.
I also do Skype sessions as well so this helps clients who cannot personally sit in front of me.
- What about gift certificates, do you offer these?
Yes I do and have many clients that want to give this to a loved one who may not be as financial and would like to give the gift of change.
- Do you ever need to have more sessions at all after you have trained in this program?
This is a great question because as life changes many new events and situations present themselves to us. Most of the time I have found clients able to use the program and gain an understanding what beliefs need to change to help the emotional charges they are feeling.It is on rare occasions that clients represent with an unconscious pattern and cannot manage to see what upgrade they need or solution they need to grow because of this very reason is that it is unconscious.It is here that they can come for a 1.5 session to help them. This is what coaching is about to help you make permanent change again in this area of their life.
I have corporate clients who like to just book in every few months to work with me through any changes because they enjoy the support and mentoring I give. If you can try not to look at coaching as therapy rather it is teaching to gain greater understanding and awareness.
In truth we all are continuing to grow and develop and need some support at different times in our lives. Our mind/brain is not broken and we aren’t failures our mind has just become stuck because it believes it is protecting us. You just need a new way of looking at it from an outside perspective.
- Is it good for all the family or relationship partners to learn this together?
Absolutely, although it is not vital that all family members or partners learn together, most of the time I find that when one family member are learning SIT the others see the changes and go ‘oh I want some of that.’You will have changes and great ones whether your family or partners come or not.
- Is it beneficial that partners learn it together?
Again as I have stated above it is not necessary, although it can have a profound effect on the relationship if both learn it. You also do not have to learn together, it is more affordable to do it this way.