How to bring Romance back into Your Life!
Have you ever wished that your relationship could go back to the days when you first met your partner and everything seemed so much more dreamy and romantic? The way he moved, the way he looked at you with his big blue eyes just made you melt? What happened where did that passion go?
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Personal Relationships
It is easy to forget that our personal relationships are our most precious resource for coping with life in unstable and uncertain times. What we most need is each other, and we need this because we are learning, growing and developing. Is it not true that we learn from others around
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How to communicate well in relationships
Conversations generally take the first direction rather than the second, simply because we seem to be so aversed to accepting that people are blank canvases. People cling to the notion that messages are powerful, and that audiences are passive. There is a belief that all we have to do
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The Relationship Game
What is the most challenging thing or event in any relationship? What destroys more partnerships, marriage, new relationships etc? This is the old age question that most people ask me when wanting and desiring to take their relationship to a level 3 to 4 love plate forms. What is a le
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The flip side of the coin
I am writing a book. I suppose like anything there is a divine timing and if I was to really sit back and look at the growth I have done the last year I can see ‘why’ I needed to wait. For every couple in a relationship or even a single person who somehow doesn’t feel happy and
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STROKING: GIVING POSTIVE RECOGNITION TO OTHERS
After bonding with people we have the opportunity to deepen the encounter by ‘stroking’-giving to-the other person. A stroke is a unit of attention providing stimulation which , when positive, energises both the giver and the receiver, for example ‘Mary, thanks for h
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WHAT IS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE?
‘What is unconditional love’? It is not, “I can love you if you do what my emotional programming-my emotional addictions-says I want you to do. “It is just love, ‘just,” “I love you because you are there; I love you because you are part of the
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Relationship Coaching – struggling to be part of the solution
Joey and Sally came to me for Relationship Coaching. You could see and feel the moment that Joey walked in the door he was struggling to be here. I sensed a fear of being made wrong and even so a greater sense of feeling he was failing in the relationship. As I greeted the couple I em
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Compassionate Boundaries
The Art of Compassionate Boundaries help to create a mutual balance and harmony. instead of split balance. This helps couples keep each other accountable. If someone does not have boundaries and begins to do another’s work for him/her, such as creating all the togetherness in th
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The Law of Evaluation
‘The Law of Evaluation’ goes like this when you confront your husband or wife and begin to set compassionate boundaries, your partner may be hurt. In evaluating the pain that your compassionate setting causes your spouse, remember that love and limits go together this is h
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